When the World Is Not Fair for Women

Discussed about VA involved in online prostitution that shocked the media, with continuous blow-ups becoming hot news that beat other cases. There is a bit of disappointment with the media at this time which only cornered one party, even though there were three parties involved in this case. Sek workers, pimps and customers. But why is it that only one person is persecuted, namely women?

VA acts, it cannot be justified by any religion, moreover he lives in a country that holds high in the customs of the east. We don't live in western countries that are free to do one stand or samen laven. But if the media wants to be fair, mention the three related parties. And if the State wants to take preventive action, because it wants to uphold the values ​​of the Godhead that do not conflict with the Pancasila, there should be sanctions for deterrent effects for the three perpetrators in this prostitution network.

But the Criminal Code is not able to ensnare it, sanctions only apply to pimps. Whereas in this case there is a symbiosis of mutualism, there are no disadvantaged parties in this online prostitution transaction.

The social law will clearly be accepted, especially for VA. Not everyone is able to face the attitude of the julid netizens or the people in the real world. He will bear the shame for the rest of his life, as a result of what he has done. Although someday, it could be a better life he has lived, but can people accept it with open arms without bringing up his past? This social law is more cruel, especially for women.

Why do heavier women receive social sanctions? Because they are mothers. His shoulder has the burden of giving birth and educating generations.

Women are always seen from their past, even though their future is better. Sometimes this does indeed feel unfair. Women must not be tarnished. Must be pure, white as cotton. He is often in a difficult position. When there are cases of infidelity, the household is destroyed, the child is damaged, again the women are blamed. Even though in this problem, men have a big share too. But why is it always the women who are always on the wrong side?

If you want to think clearly, actually the lack of the role of men as leaders in the household makes these women damaged. Why can men be blamed? Because the Qur'an emphasizes the role of fathers in children's education. While the reality that occurs today, the biggest role is charged to the mother. Even the role of earning a living, mom does it. Which ultimately weak shoulders become brittle due to most loads. Until when it is unable to bear the burden, it will be a very dangerous explosion. Damage to the household pillars due to infidelity, domestic violence, children caught in promiscuity, etc.

Father is the main pillar of the strength of a family, if the role of a weak father do not expect much of a harmonious family that is awaited by Heaven.

Today there are many cases of divorce, because men as leaders do not have exemplary figures, so they are easily entangled by seductive women there. Then the affair arises resulting in divorce. Men who have little role in fulfilling their family needs, men who are not able to be role models for their daughters, and their daughters seek love outside the home, and eventually anchor love to the wrong men. And often changing partners can be an outlet for all his disappointments in the past.

Men who are cautious and responsible will surely give birth to a healthy family. Educating his wife's child well, not suffering him.

When the role of men in the family does not have a strong foundation of faith, then disaster can come at any time.
Many women in this world do not get exemplary father figures. Father is rude, playing physically, even many who do not care about their daughters. And this is what causes her daughter in adulthood to have a less pleasant personality in society, due to a very bad father figure. So it feels less elegant, if every problem occurs, then women are always judged? If the mistake is shared fairly, without one being cornered one of them, that is the thing that should be.

Despite the bad attitude of women, there must be men who have damaged it. And the bad role of the family causes it all. If you want to give birth to a good generation, then improve your family foundation first. Fathers and mothers who work together will be able to realize the birth of a healthy generation. Psychologically healthy, naturally healthy.[]